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How to make friends?

Bunny711921
Bunny711921
11/07/25 5:37pm
All my 'best friends' have always left me, and I don't really fit in anywhere. I only have myself to rely on, like 99.99% of the time. Anyway, I need some help figuring out how to make friends. I'm super friendly and really nice. I can be loud sometimes, but that's sort of my energy, but I'm lost. And it feels really lonely sometimes, so I was wondering if anyone has any advice, because . . . well, I'm alone.
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Destinyluvsjustinn
Destinyluvsjustinn
11/09/25 2:04am
heyy girly so I understand what u mean Ive lost a ton of my friends really only have 1 now and I understand what its like to feel lost I still feel the same way I would recommend joining clubs or sports to make friends thats how it mostly happens is in clubs or sports! especially if ur in high school try to join as much as u can and try to make some new friends like that or online friends are amazing I had a online best friends for about 3 years I just feel like the better people are the online ones for sure but that's the advice I do have I hope it does get better for uu luv!! you seem like such a fun and amazing person to hang out with!! I would love to get to know u thoo and become friends have a amazing day/night!!
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