142+ Best Birthday Wishes and Messages for Your Husband

Looking for a heartwarming way to express love on your husband’s birthday? We’ve got you covered! In this article, we’re providing the ultimate list of birthday wishes you can copy and paste to convey how much you care about him—including funny messages, cute quotes, and heartfelt birthday blessings. Plus, we’ve included tips from relationship coaches Luis Congdon and Eddy Baller on how to make your husband’s birthday message even more special!

Our Favorite “Happy Birthday to My Husband” Messages

“Happy birthday to my incredible husband. I love you more than life itself.”
“Happy birthday, darling! I’ll never get tired of loving you.”
“You’re not getting older, you’re leveling up. Happy birthday to my 10/10 husband.”
“Happy birthday to my partner in crime 💰 and my partner in dishwashing 🍽️😆”
“The older you get, the better you get…unless you are a banana.” —Betty White

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Heartfelt Birthday Messages for Husbands

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Tug at his heartstrings with a deep and loving message. If you want to make your husband feel moved on his birthday, tell him exactly how he has impacted you. What’s it like being married to him? Has he changed your perspective on love? How grateful are you to be his partner? Be vulnerable about your emotions to connect with him on a deeper level, and describe all the positive changes he’s brought into your life, as well as the love you hold in your heart for him.^{[1]
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- “Happy birthday to my incredible husband. I love you more than life itself.”
- “I hope you have an amazing birthday, dear. I love you more than words can convey.”
- “Wishing you the best birthday, baby. I love you more than I ever knew was possible.”
- “Cheers to another year, my dear! I love you more than a glass of wine at the end of the day.”
- “Here’s to many more years by your side! Happy birthday, sweetheart. I love you more than flowers love the rain.”
- “It’s my favorite person’s birthday today! Thank you for being so caring and always treating me with respect. I love you more than any love song could describe.”
- “Let’s take a moment for this monumental occasion…your birthday! It’s been amazing to see you grow over the years, and I’m so lucky to be your partner. I love you more than anything in the universe.”
- “Every day, I thank my lucky stars for guiding my heart and soul to you. Happy birthday, my love!”
- “I will spend an eternity loving you, caring for you, and showing you how much you mean to me, and I treasure each moment I spend with you. Happy birthday, baby.”
- “I never believed in soulmates until I met you, but it really feels like we were made for each other. Have an amazing birthday!”
- “I must have done something right in another life to be able to call you mine, and I’m forever grateful to have you in my life. I hope you have the most amazing birthday!”
- “When I’m going through a tough time, none of it matters when I look at you. Being by your side gives me strength and makes me feel like everything will be okay. I’m so lucky to have you, birthday boy!”
- “I love you more than you will ever know, and I wish you all the happiness, positivity, and success in the world. Enjoy your day, my love.”
- “I didn’t know I could love someone as much as I love you, but my heart keeps proving me wrong! Happy birthday, handsome!”
- “I find new things I love about you every day, and I feel like I won the lottery because I married my best friend. Happy birthday to my everything. You’re my partner for life.”
- “Happy birthday to my amazing husband. If everyone had 1/1000th of the positivity you have, the world would be a much better place. You always find the silver lining in any situation, and I am in awe of your optimism and strength.”
- “Happy birthday to my favorite person! You’re the light of my life, and you inspire me to become a better human.”
- “I can’t believe it’s been 10 years since I met the man of my dreams. Time flies when you’re in love, but know that I’ll always find new ways to spice things up! Happy birthday to the most handsome husband in the world.”
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Luis Congdon is a relationship coach who specializes in helping couples who want a long and happy relationship together.

Eddy Baller is a relationship coach who specializes in confidence-building, advanced social and communication skills, and building meaningful relationships.

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Romantic Birthday Messages for Husbands

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Shower your husband with love to celebrate his special day. Come up with a meaningful birthday wish about how much you adore your husband to make him feel loved and appreciated—just remember that “romance isn’t the same for each person,” as Congdon reminds us. “Consider what your partner likes” and write a romantic message “that really shows you took time to consider your partner” and what would make him feel valued and loved.^{[2]
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- “Happy birthday, babe. Thank you for making me feel valued and desired every day, and sticking by my side over the years.”
- “Happy birthday, darling! You are the definition of a ride or die, and I’ll never get tired of loving you.”
- “Loving you is my favorite thing to do. It’s a million times better than sleeping, eating, breathing, and anything else that makes me feel alive. Happy birthday to the most amazing man I know!”
- “I can’t get enough of you, and I know I never will. Happy birthday, my love. Here’s to many more years together!”
- “Sometimes, it feels like I’m living in a dream because you’re my husband. Seriously, what did I do to deserve you? I can’t believe you’re mine, and I keep pinching myself to make sure I’m really married to you. Happy birthday, honey.”
- “Happy birthday, love bug. You deserve everything and more.”
- “I fall in love with you more as time goes by, and I look forward to celebrating 100 more birthdays with you. May this year bring you everything you want and more, and cheers to another year around the sun!”
- “Even when we’re old and gray, my love will still grow for you every day. I love building our future together, and I never take your love for granted. Happy birthday to the person who will always be by my side.”
- “I know I don’t say this enough, but thank you for being such an amazing partner. You make me laugh and smile, but more importantly, you make me want to be the best version of myself. I love you forever, and I hope you have the most special day.”
- “To my better half, thank you for being so kind and patient with me. I know I can be a lot to handle at times, but you always know what to say to brighten my day. Words cannot describe how much I appreciate you, and I’m wishing you the most amazing birthday.”
- “Here’s to the person who makes me feel seen, heard, and supported. I’m so grateful to share my life with you, and I can’t wait to experience even more incredible moments together. Happy birthday, my love!”
- “Happy birthday to my wonderful husband. Thank you for trusting me and sharing a side of yourself that others don’t get to see. I feel so lucky to have you as my partner, and I can’t wait to see our relationship grow!”
- “Happy birthday to my sweet husband. I’ll never forget our first date, our first kiss, and our first time saying “I love you.” I’m looking forward to even more incredible memories together.”
- “I still remember the day we met and how your shirt matched your beautiful eyes. I’m pretty sure I fell in love with you instantly, but it took me a few years to talk to you. Sometimes, I wish I had made a move earlier, but I think everything worked out the way it was supposed to. I’m so grateful to call you mine, and I hope you have the most special day.”

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Short & Simple Birthday Messages for Husbands

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Keep it short and sweet to share your well-wishes. Sometimes, a simple statement can be the most powerful way to show love to your partner, so feel free to send a brief birthday message that comes from the heart. Let your husband know you’ll always stand by his side, and express anticipation for all the beautiful years to come.^{[3]
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- “I fall in love with you more and more each day. Happy birthday, baby!”
- “I love you more and more as the years go by. Happy birthday to my partner in crime.”
- “No one understands me like you do, and I hope all your birthday wishes come true!”
- “Happy birthday to the most kind, loving, handsome, and genuine person on the planet.”
- “You still give me butterflies after all these years. Wishing the most handsome man a happy birthday!”
- “I wish I could buy you the world, but my heart will have to do. Happy birthday to my everything.”
- “Happy birthday to my best friend in the entire world, my husband! I hope you get everything you wish for and more.”
- “Cheers to a very special man on a very special day. You’re so full of life and energy, and it makes me excited to grow old with you. Happy birthday, my love.”
- “Wishing my handsome husband an amazing birthday. 40 never looked so good!”
- “You’re not getting older, you’re leveling up. Happy birthday to my 10/10 husband.”
- “You’re sexy, fine, and all mine. Happy birthday to the hottest person on the planet!”
- “Even though you’re over the hill, you still got it! Happy birthday to my sexy husband.”
- “I still can’t believe I landed a husband as handsome as you. Happy birthday to an absolute stud!”
- “Another year older and another year wiser. Happy birthday to the greatest husband ever!”
- “Even though we’re getting older, I still learn new things about you every day. Thank you for bringing me so much love and laughter over the years. Happy birthday, baby.”
- “Growing old is a blessing, and growing old with your soulmate is the greatest blessing of all.”^{[4]
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- “Wishing you endless smiles, laughter, and love—today and always.”
- “Happy Birthday, my love—may this year bring you as much joy and happiness as you bring into my life every day.”

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Funny Birthday Messages for Husbands

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Send a silly birthday message to get the laughs going. Trying to add some humor to your wishes? Throw in a lighthearted joke or one-liner to make your husband laugh out loud. Incorporating his interests and behavior is a great way to show you pay attention, and it also makes your witty birthday message feel more sincere and heart-touching.^{[5]
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- “Happy birthday to my partner in crime 💰 and my partner in dishwashing 🍽️😆”
- “Happy Birthday from the only one who can put up with your snoring! 💤😉”^{[6]
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- “Sometimes I don't know how you put up with me…but then I remember I put up with you too—here's to more years annoying each other; I love you!”
- “Wishing a very happy birthday to my favorite pillow and foot warmer—er, I mean husband!”
- “A good marriage is based on honesty, so I have to tell you, you're getting old. Happy Birthday! 💋”
- “Since today’s your special day, I give you permission to leave your socks on the floor 🧦🤭”
- “Cheers to another year, my love. You’re definitely older, maybe not wiser, but still the love of my life!”
- “Happy birthday to the luckiest guy in the world. Marrying someone like me is like winning the lottery 🤑🤑😘”
- "If there were ever a zombie outbreak, I would still come for you 🧟😂Happy birthday to the person I care about the most in the world!”
- “Happy birthday to the person who will always support you, even though you like pineapple on pizza 🍍🍕🤮 Luckily, you have better taste in partners!”
- “Happy Birthday to the guy who makes my heart race and my eyes roll—sometimes at the same time!”
- “Happy Birthday to the guy who still acts like a teenager but needs a nap by 3 PM. Love you, old man! 👴🏽”
- “Baby, we might need a fire extinguisher to put out all the candles on your cake 🧯🧯🧯 Happy birthday to my older, wiser, and smoking hot husband!”
- “I’m so happy we’re growing older together and that you’ll always have a head start 😉♥️Happy birthday to my handsome, wise, and loving husband.”
- “On your birthday, I promise to laugh at all your jokes—no matter how bad they are! 😆😙”
- “Happy birthday to my other half. No matter how many wrinkles and gray hairs you get, you’ll always have a gorgeous, stunning, and younger partner to make up for it! 😜”

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Cute Birthday Messages for Husbands

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Make your love loud and clear with an adorable message. If you’re looking to share birthday love in a lighthearted way, write a cute “roses are red” poem, reference things you and your husband love, or sprinkle in some playful emojis. Incorporating things you love about him or little details you’ve learned from being married is an excellent way to show you truly care about him. For example, Baller advises to mention “something specific about him, like the way he walks or the way he smiles.”^{[7]
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- “Roses are red, violets are blue...There’s no one I’d rather do life with than you! Happy birthday, my love. Wishing you the most incredible and fun-filled day.”
- “I’d rather live in a world without coffee than a world without you! Your love is my addiction, and I’m so lucky to call you mine. Happy birthday to the most inspiring person I know.”
- “Happy birthday, baby. Thank you for being my sous chef, dance partner, gym instructor, travel buddy and husband for life. Here’s to another year of incredible memories together!”
- “You’re the Link to my Zelda, the Mario to my Peach, the Tidus to my Yuna 🎮🥹🖤. I can’t wait to grow old together and see our journey unfold. Happy birthday to the love of my life.”
- “It's crazy how you can go through life thinking you were complete until you fall in love. Now, I can’t even go 5 minutes without you! Happy birthday, sweetheart. I hope your day is filled with love, laughter, and lots of beer❤️😆🍻💋🎁.”
- “Baby, thank you for making me tea at the end of a long day, cleaning the house when I’m stressed out, and being gentle with me when I’m stubborn. No one loves me like you do, and I’m the luckiest person alive to be your partner. You deserve the most incredible day, and I hope you achieve everything you want in life. Love you, forever and always.”
- “It seems like it was just yesterday when I met you in chemistry class, because I still get butterflies when I’m around you. Thank you for being such an amazing husband and making me feel desired every day. I hope this new personal year is the best one yet!”

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Motivational Birthday Messages for Husbands

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Offer some encouraging words to make him feel loved and valued. The best birthday gift is feeling supported by loved ones, so take the opportunity to give your husband an extra boost of confidence. Encourage him to dream big and shoot for the stars, and remind him that you’ll be cheering him on every step of the way.
- “Happy birthday to my incredible husband. Remember that you can tackle anything life throws your way, and I’ll be right beside you each and every day. I love you, always.”
- “Baby, the world isn’t ready for your brilliant ideas, but don’t be afraid to stand out and make your mark. Happy birthday to my hero!”
- “You are an absolute legend in the making, and I’m so excited to witness everything you accomplish. Here’s to even more amazing memories together in the year to come!”
- “I’ve seen you overcome so much adversity over the past few years, so I know you can overcome anything else that gets in your way. Happy birthday, my love!”
- “You’re the strongest person I know, and I know you can achieve everything you want…and then some! Happy birthday.”
- “Whenever life knocks you down, remember that I believe in you! You can achieve anything you set your mind to, and I’ll gladly confront anyone who says otherwise 😉 Happy birthday, baby!!”
- “I’m so grateful to call you mine, and I’m wishing you more love, peace, and prosperity this upcoming year.”
- “If you're ever feeling down, come back to this birthday card. You are the sweetest, kindest, and most talented man I’ve ever met (and anyone who knows the real you will back me up on this). Even if things don’t go your way, don’t be afraid to take risks and follow your wildest dreams—life is too short to play it safe. I love you, and I know you can achieve greatness!”

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Birthday Blessings for Husbands

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Express how blessed you are to be married to your husband. Birthdays are the perfect opportunity to celebrate loved ones and thank God for placing them in your life in the first place. Turn to a birthday prayer, blessing, or quote to express gratitude toward your husband, and let him know you’re praying for him on his special day.
- “You’re proof that unconditional love exists, and I thank the Lord for bringing us together. Birthday blessings to you, my love!”
- “I’m wishing you an incredible birthday, dear! You’re the biggest blessing in my life, and I pray every year is filled with His eternal joy.”
- “I really won the lottery when God made you my husband. Happy birthday!”
- “God knew what he was doing when he created you. I’m praying for many more birthdays by your side, and I’m forever grateful to call you mine.”
- “May the Lord bless you with heavenly joy on your birthday! Praying He will guide you this upcoming year and grant you happiness for many years to come.”
- “Today we celebrate one of God’s greatest creations…YOU! I’m so grateful to be your partner, and I pray you have the best birthday ever. Wishing you peace, love, and prosperity.”
- “God couldn’t have created another being that’s as perfect for me as you. Wishing you nothing but love and blessings today and every day. Happy birthday!”
- “Every morning I thank God for blessing me with your presence. I’m eternally grateful for your love. Continued blessings, baby.”
- “I told God you’re incredible, but he already knew it. So, I asked him to bless you even more! I pray this new personal year is even more amazing than the last, and know that I’m always on your side. Happy birthday, darling.”
- “God blessed me with one of his most precious gifts: you. Happy birthday to my best friend and faithful lover.”
- “May your birthday be filled with boundless light, love, and positivity. I pray that God gives you the strength to achieve your heart’s desires, and I can’t wait to see what happens this upcoming year. Thank you for being my life partner. Love you, always.”
- “May God show you grace and bestow abundant blessings upon you as you celebrate this trip around the sun. Happy Birthday!”
- “As you turn another year older, I know that God will continue to bless you. Keep the faith and enjoy your special day.”
- “For your special day, I pray for peace, happiness, and prosperity in your life. Happy birthday, my dearest.”
- “I pray that the Lord continues to shine His light on you and bless you in every way.”
- “I will always praise God for making us spouses. Our bond is unbreakable and for that I’m immensely blessed.”

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Birthday Quotes for Husbands

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Use a meaningful birthday quote when you’re at a loss for words. Having trouble coming up with the perfect message? Get help from someone else to share your well-wishes! Choose an author, celebrity, or public figure your husband admires, and share their words to express love and affection.^{[8]
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- “The first hundred years are the hardest.” —Wilson Mizner
- “Count your age by friends, not years. Count your life by smiles, not tears.” —John Lennon
- “The older you get, the better you get…unless you are a banana.” —Betty White
- “Today you are you! That is truer than true! There is no one alive who is you-er than you!” —Dr. Seuss
- “Grow old along with me! The best is yet to be, the last of life, for which the first was made.” —Robert Browning
- “Let us never know what old age is. Let us know the happiness time brings, not count the years.” —Ausonius
- “Today is the oldest you have been and the youngest you will ever be again. Make the most of it!” —Nicky Gumbel
- “Let us never know what old age is. Let us know the happiness time brings, not count the years.” —Decimus Magnus Ausonius
- “God gave us the gift of life; it is up to us to give ourselves the gift of living well.” —Voltaire
- “It takes a long time to become young.” —Pablo Picasso
- “There are two great days in a person's life - the day we are born and the day we discover why.” —William Barclay
- “You know you're getting old when the candles cost more than the cake.” —Bob Hope
- “All the world is birthday cake, so take a piece, but not too much.” —George Harrison
- “The great thing about getting older is that you don't lose all the other ages you've been.” —Madeleine L’Engle
- “The way I see it, you should live everyday like its your birthday.” —Paris Hilton

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Birthday Captions for Husbands

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Drop a sweet and snappy caption to show love to your partner. If you want to celebrate your husband’s special day on social media, caption your photo with a short and memorable message. Letting the world know how much he means to you is a thoughtful gesture that’s sure to make him smile.
- “Happy birthday to the best view…my handsome husband! 😍”
- “My life would suck without you. Happy birthday, handsome 😘”
- “Happy birthday to the only guy I’ll share my fries with 🍟 Love you, babe.”
- “To the person who makes my heart skip a beat and makes my life complete 🧩🤍”
- “Shoutout to a king who always makes me feel like a queen 👑 Happy birthday, baby!”
- “HBD to the guy who brings out the best in me. Life is more fun with you by my side 🎉🎂❤️”
- “Life isn’t perfect, but you’re pretty darn close. Happy birthday to my partner in crime 🤞💏”
- “I’m so happy to be getting old with you 💞”
- “I love you more than I love cake 🎂”
- “It may be your birthday, but you’re my greatest gift 💝”
- “Hugs, kisses, and birthday wishes! 🥂🥂🥂”
- “You’re another year older… and I’d fall in love with you all over again today. Happy birthday!”

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Birthday Messages for Long-Distance Husbands

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Stress how much you miss him if you can’t celebrate in person. Even if you’re not by his side on the big day, you can always deliver a thoughtful message to make him feel special. Let your husband know you’re excited to see him soon, and surprise him by sending your wishes in a physical card. Receiving something tangible is much more meaningful than getting a text, and it’s a great way to show love in a long-distance relationship.^{[9]
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- “I’ve traveled the world, but I still haven’t met a man who makes me feel the way you do. Happy birthday to the most kind, loving, loyal, and one-of-a-kind person I know.”
- “Happy birthday to my everything. I wish we were together, but in the meantime, I’m sending you the longest hug and kiss in the world. Hope you have the most wonderful day!”
- “I might not be there in person, but know that I’m celebrating with you in spirit! Happy birthday, my love. I hope you have a blast, but try not to get too crazy without me😉💓🎉.”
- “Roses are red, violets are blue…I wish I was there so I could kiss you. Happy birthday, baby.”
- “Happy birthday, my love! I don’t know how I’m going to survive the next few weeks without you! I miss you like crazy, and I can’t wait to see your handsome face.”
- “We may be thousands of miles apart, but you’ll always have a piece of my heart…even though my heart hurts right now because we’re not together🥺❤️‍🩹 Know that I’m thinking of you and counting down the days till I see you in person. Enjoy your special day, my love!”

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Gift-Based Birthday Messages for Husbands

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Tie your message into a personalized birthday gift for your man. For example, you could make him a coupon book of things you know he’ll enjoy—like vouchers for a romantic picnic, sensual massage, or home-cooked meal of his choice. You could also mention any gift that you’re getting him, including gift experiences like a weekend away or a romantic night of intimacy, as Congdon suggests.^{[10]
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- “Happy birthday, my love. Consider this your get out of free jail card, even if you’re wrong.”
- “Need a breather? Here’s a coupon when you want a boy’s night out, no questions asked.”
- “Wishing my handsome husband a happy birthday. This coupon is good for: 1000 kisses in 24 hours.”
- “Whenever you’re feeling stressed, use this coupon for a glass of wine, a deep conversation, or anything else you want.
- “It’s your special day! Pick what you want to watch, what you want to eat for dinner, what you want to do after dinner…Today is all about YOU.
- “For your special day, I’m giving you a very special gift…a dream day you can plan whenever you want. Whether you’re feeling a weekend getaway, a concert, or a sensual massage, just say the word and you got it!”
- “Remember when I accidentally stained your Jordans back in the day? And you ignored me for a week? Well, here’s a pair to make up for it and let you know how much I love you. Happy birthday, and thanks for being such a loving partner over the years.”

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Belated Birthday Messages for Husbands

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Send him a belated birthday wish if you missed the big day. Life can be stressful at times, and it’s totally normal to occasionally forget about important dates—including your husband’s big day. If you forgot to wish him a happy birthday, offer a heartfelt apology and stress that you’ll find a way to make up for it. If he’s not big on birthdays, feel free to incorporate some humor to lighten the mood and express your love.^{[11]
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- “They say love makes you blind, but I guess it makes you forgetful too! Happy belated birthday to my sweet, caring, and supportive husband.”
- “I knew something was wrong yesterday because my heart was beating so quickly. I’m so sorry for the late wishes, my love. Happy belated birthday.”
- “I’m hoping this minor speed bump in our happy marriage is overlooked, but know that the wishes I sent to you got stuck in traffic. I love you dearly, and I’m sorry for the delay.”
- “I’m so sorry, sweetheart. I was so busy being a beautiful wife and caring mother to our children that I completely forgot to wish you a happy birthday! Please forgive me so we can go back to kissing, cuddling, and being love birds.”
- “Life is all about forgiving and forgetting. I forgot about your birthday, and you can forgive me. Perfect! But seriously, I’m so sorry about skipping your birthday, sweetheart. I hope you had a beautiful day, and I promise I will make it up to you!!!”

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